The concept of paradigms stood out to me about five years ago when I was struggling with foundational momentum. My former boss recommended I start with a book to revisit the basics. That book was Stephen R. Covey’s “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.” Covey’s book emphasizes the importance of character and principles in achieving long-term effectiveness. He reasons that understanding our own framework through which we interpret our experiences, and the willingness to shift the paradigm behind it, is key to improving our personal and interpersonal effectiveness, thus shifting our realities. Paradigms are made up of distinct patterns, concepts, practices, and standards that define a particular way of viewing and understanding the world. They serve as the framework for theories, research methods, and the interpretation of data and life. This framework serves as the lens for our perceptions and interpretations of our realities. Through various shifts over the last three years in beliefs, identity, and values, Her Paradigms was born.
I’ve always wanted to be a published writer for as long as I can remember. One of the issues with starting was that I never really felt like I had anything of substance to write about. I have always fought against superficial concepts and ways of life. I didn’t want to get on God’s internet and not have meaningful messages behind it. I had entertaining stories, but no substantial truths—too much light and not enough darkness. However, I would soon discover those hidden shadows through a period of isolation, introspection, and long talks with God. After walking away from my career, then later my business, and eventually my friends, I decided to go on a journey of mental and spiritual healing alone. It was life’s circumstances that would sit me down. Little did I know this journey would be the catalyst to my shift in paradigms.
My goal is to connect with other women walking paths of the unknown—women who are struggling to find their voices and their purpose. The misunderstood, the overlooked. Those who have been betrayed, taken advantage of, and underestimated. Women who are trying to give themselves the same love they’ve given easily to others. Those seeking a community fueled with positivity, encouragement, and genuine connection. The pink dolphins of the world, like myself. I can’t wait to shift paradigms together!
Her Paradigms is a collection of the exploration of past patterns, met with new behaviors. It’s theories of self-discovery, riddled with honesty, mistakes, growth, and experiences. It’s research of applied applications that come together to form new methodologies. The intangible progress that’s developed internally, before manifesting into the physical. It’s a testament of my authentic self. A catalyst to the fulfillment of my wildest dreams. It’s the journey of an alchemist.